I kinda agree with that. I think our lives can be so fucked up because we let them be. We choose to be like that. We made the wrong choice and we end up in the wrong gutter. And then we have friends who'd say "See i told you so." Premonition and instincts. I think they walk together.

But if we're given impossible choices then it's a whole different story altogether. Because more often than not, either ways, it's as fucked up as it already is.

I envy that 20 years old girl who's happily married since a year ago,with a son. I think that'll be an eye opener for the whole of Malay community.

I won't say i have that much of a gut. But i take my hats off to you.